Ok, ok...update
Someone actually left a comment in my previous post telling me to update. Muahahahaha.......
Update la.
Well, so much for the "I love you" hype. Now it's the marriage hype. This is the part which I DON'T like. Why?
Well, he terms marriage as a moving goalpost. Meaning kalau tak de duit, tunda la dulu. No need to be in such a hurry. Yeah sure, so long as you (the man) DOESN'T want kids!!! I'm fine without having to deal with screaming babies and soiled diapers. I'm totally fine. I have my pet fish.
Anyway, what I wanna say is that marriage is like Nike tagline. JUST DO IT. If you start calculating your finances and shit, you'll realise that $$$ is never enough. And even if it is, you'll always want more. So in the end, it won't be enuff anyway...
Sometimes I swear people think of all the wrong things when it comes to marriage. Example, people think that marriage=wedding reception.
Eh, hello! Akad nikah dah cukup la...
Of course, me being the Royal Leo(ness) that I am would love one of those fairy-tale weddings with me in a cascading white gown etc...but hey, that ain't gonna happen la...Unless I get hitched to some prince somewhere...
In any case, kalau tak de duit tu, tok sah la cakap pasal kahwin. Nak tunda tu tunda je la...Risiko tanggung sendiri. Kalau orang lain sambar kang, nasib la, kan?
Update la.
Well, so much for the "I love you" hype. Now it's the marriage hype. This is the part which I DON'T like. Why?
Well, he terms marriage as a moving goalpost. Meaning kalau tak de duit, tunda la dulu. No need to be in such a hurry. Yeah sure, so long as you (the man) DOESN'T want kids!!! I'm fine without having to deal with screaming babies and soiled diapers. I'm totally fine. I have my pet fish.
Anyway, what I wanna say is that marriage is like Nike tagline. JUST DO IT. If you start calculating your finances and shit, you'll realise that $$$ is never enough. And even if it is, you'll always want more. So in the end, it won't be enuff anyway...
Sometimes I swear people think of all the wrong things when it comes to marriage. Example, people think that marriage=wedding reception.
Eh, hello! Akad nikah dah cukup la...
Of course, me being the Royal Leo(ness) that I am would love one of those fairy-tale weddings with me in a cascading white gown etc...but hey, that ain't gonna happen la...Unless I get hitched to some prince somewhere...
In any case, kalau tak de duit tu, tok sah la cakap pasal kahwin. Nak tunda tu tunda je la...Risiko tanggung sendiri. Kalau orang lain sambar kang, nasib la, kan?
posted by Ms. J at 10:13 PM
11 Comments:
Omg..i totally agree with you. Ppl always see marriage = kenduri/reception. Susah betul bila society dah sampai ketahap mcm tu...and sometimes its our parents wish nak buat besaq2. susah jugak nak compromise padahal its our marriage not theirs.
omg, i was just talking to a friend abt this tader duit nak kawin thingy last nite.
tader duit is not an excuse/reason for not getting hitched..yet.
I miss you Kak Ta! Can't wait for you to come! And then we can go hit on dashing English gentlemen, k? If convert their pay packet into ringgit, sure enough money for marriage kan....
betul! betul!
tu belum kira duit nak ada anak lagi (which is even more expensive than holding a wedding reception).
Shaike-I'm not the only one eh...
Ylanda-Babe, wedding in tioman by the beach, waddya say???
Psycho-I miss you too!!!!!
Babe-Tak de duit jgn buat anak la kan?
My 2 sen worth..
I was always broke when i was single... reason being I was out all the time spending money either on clubbing, booze or dinner with a chick or a combination. See, when i was single i was out 80% of the week.. the other 20% was for catching up on my zzzzz's. I would have never gotten married if money was the issue..
Now im married i drink less, barely ever party and have dinners in expensive restaurants only once a week with the wifey... hence, I have a bit more money now then when i was single...
So... money cannot be the reason a person doesnt want to get married... the person is just not ready.. or not ready with the particular person they are dating...
end of my 2 sen..
akad nikah aje cukup?
SF got it spot on dude
duit tak penting. yang perlu hanyalah cinta yang sejati.
SF-You're meeting 'him' this Sunday if you come. And if you do, can you PLEASE tell him that?
GravT-Agreed.
Oreos-One cannot live on love and air dear...
update lahhhhhhhhh
J - Sorry just replied to your email.. cant make it this Sunday.. looks like you'll have to wait for the 'ring'... hahahaa
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