Thursday, April 27, 2006

Update..again!

Since April 9, which is the day I got back from Tokyo, life has been a whirlwind. I suppose I should take it as a good sign that you guys out there are pestering me to update my blog. Where would I be without you all.....

Ok, after Tokyo was work, work, work, then fly off to Tioman for a short break. Then back again and work, work, work, then off to Bangi for a 3-day course which they only tell you at the last minute. Then work, work, and tomorrow evening I'm off to Kuching on business which runs into my weekend!!!

The only reason why I'm not telling my customer to fly kite is coz my boss is going as well.

On a personal note, I read what you guys wrote about the whole marrige/wedding deal.

This could be what I want to believe in. It could also mean I'm kidding myself. But I don't know...

The guy does want to get married and all (so he says, he's been talking about it so much!). Problem is, he's got too much on his plate to even have time to figure out how best to address the marriage issue. He does seem quite earnest about it. But currently the company he's working for is undergoing M&A and he's in charge of it. Plus he runs an F&B outlet and he's in a JV with some friends. They've got a restaurant which is not doing so well at the moment. Since he's a shareholder, he's expected to cough up some dough to keep the restaurant alive.

We did talk about cutting down on expenses but he wants a 300 pax guest list. And he wants an akad nikah as well as a reception afterwards. And he wants his aunts and uncles (the whole dynasty) and friends to attend.

Me, on the other hand wouldn't bat an eyelid at the idea of eloping. Stress-free. No wastage in terms of $$$ entertaining people you hardly know. And I'd much rather spend $$$ on a whole week in the Maldives for honeymoon!!!

Maybe I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it's true what SF said that either he's not ready, OR I'm not the one.

I REALLY DON'T KNOW.

2 Comments:

Blogger [V]landa said...

come get married at my resort in tioman!!!

11:12 PM  
Blogger gravtkills said...

do u love him enuf to wait for him to be ready for the wedding bells?

yoohoo tioman resort for the weddin!

11:26 PM  

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